I blew it.
This morning when Miguel woke up he went to my room carrying a tiny ziploc plastic and asked, "Mommy, why didn't the tooth fairy leave me a gift?"
I blinked. I froze. I didn't say a word. I really am so lousy at lying.
Looking at me straight in the face, he clambered up my bed and asked, "Mommy what are you hiding?'
...
He asked me the same question over and over again, and I looked at him, asking myself if he was ready to handle this. Well, more like I was thinking of how to get myself out of an embarrassing situation. First attempt: "I guess the tooth fairy forgot. Why don't you write her a note and put it under your pillow again tonight?"
But no. He kept asking me the same question, "Mommy, why are you smiling? What are you hiding?"
Sigh.
I hope you other tooth fairies out there won't get mad at me, but I actually told him the truth. Didn't seem like a bad thing to do either because more than once he's already asked me if I was the tooth fairy. But the only bad part is that I didn't just get stripped of my fairy badge; I busted my mom as well. Because she was the one who provided me with a Sudoku book for Miguel one time when he lost his tooth.
For a moment tears welled in his eyes and I asked him, "Are you sad because there is no tooth fairy or because you didn't get a gift this time?" He paused at first, then replied, "Because there isn't a tooth fairy."
"Tell me the truth," I asked.
"Because I didn't get a gift this time." We laughed.
Just like his mom, he's a lousy liar too.
Fortysomething single parent's heroic attempts to be a supermom while staying beautiful
Friday, May 25, 2007
Disgraced tooth fairy
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2 comments:
and he had the brilliant idea of running around before mass screaming "the tooth fairy is our mother"... the very day selene recieved 100 bucks from her tooth fairy. if i was her mother and i didn't put it in then who did?
there's got to be a rule about this..."if your bubble's been popped, don't go around poppoing other people's bubbles."
yeah, i told him not to tell anyone, but obviously he didn't follow my instructions. sorry about that.
maybe it would have been better to keep up the illusion. some illusions, at least.
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