I finally put my son on the bus this morning! No tears, no trouble.
The kids made a fuss over him the minute he got in. Maybe because they're used to seeing him only during dismissal time, when he rides with them without a hitch. As the bus drove away, Miguel turned and blew me a kiss.
I even called the bus driver afterwards, and he assured me that Miguel was okay during the ride.
My secret: I told him that if he makes a fuss on the way to school, he doesn't get to watch TV for the rest of the day PLUS he loses 5 minutes from his weekend Playstation time. But if he goes to school without any trouble, he gets to watch TV and gets 5 extra minutes playing video games this weekend.
I've been doing this for the past few days while I was bringing him to school myself. So far the technique seems to work.
And it's amazing what I was able to accomplish in the 2 hours before I headed off to work: cleaned my drawers and one closet. Who knows, maybe one day I might even muster the energy to paint :)
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Fortysomething single parent's heroic attempts to be a supermom while staying beautiful
Wednesday, June 21, 2006
Hallelujah!
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3 comments:
aha... the art of the bribe.
welcome to the club.
Ha ha! I choose to call it "reward and punishment" but then "bribe" will certainly do :)
if you dangle reward against punishment, you still call it a bribe.
catching good behaviour and giving reward for that is the best.
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